Making a difference does not only refer to doing some grand things, but also to doing the small everyday things that affect people’s lives. Every encounter is an opportunity to make a difference, and the Sufi does not lose this opportunity. The Sufi makes a difference by what he says and how he behaves.

Service is on a higher level than even prayer. Service is faith in action and the translation of prayer in daily life. Without action, prayers are not enough. As Sadi, the revered 10th century poet, wrote: “The path is the service of others, not prayer beads and dervish robes.”

We are here in this world for a short period of time. We come empty handed and return to our origin empty handed. The only thing that we take with us is the contribution that we have made to the society we live in. The true source of making a difference is love.

When we see each other as an integral part of who we are as individuals, there is no “you” or “I” anymore. This leads to a oneness with God. When we help someone, we are helping ourselves. It is like a movement of water in the ocean — and we are part of that ocean. In other words, a little movement in the water affects the whole ocean, and thus, everyone in the ocean. The more we serve others, the more we are helping ourselves. Getting the best out of others is true Sufi leadership. Conversely, if we hurt someone, we are hurting ourselves. What goes around comes around.

Nature teaches us the true meaning of giving of ourselves. The sun gives of its warmth and gives life to countless organisms. Rain quenches the dry land and makes it sprout plants and fruits. The fruits give of themselves to calm the pangs of hunger of humans. The circle must not stop here - we too need to give back to complete the circle of Nature.

Be a Giver
A person walked past the beggar and asked “why god, do you not do something for these people?” to which god replied, “I did do something. I made you.”
- Sufi saying

Life is short, and every moment and each encounter provides us with opportunities to make a difference. The more we make a difference to others, the better we are to ourselves. It is a win-win situation. We walk our path only once, so whatever good we can do, let us do it now, for we may not walk this path again.

Azim Jamal is an international inspirational speaker and author of several books, including "The Corporate Sufi" and the best seller "Seven Steps to Lasting Happiness." Over one million people worldwide have heard his uplifting message. You can get more information about Azim at www.azimjamal.com